I Hate you like I love You

Love and care is all that one needs to have a perfect life. Isn't it?

Do you have someone who used to care for you like nobody else in the world or maybe like your parents ? Who used to make you feel at home but suddenly things changed between you two. That person started backing off .  Though they still care for you, but most of your talks have started turning into taunts. Your conversations have started ending either abruptly or with an argument. Then long hours of silence, then again that person is back to you as if nothing has happened. And you completely have no idea why the other person is behaving like that, what is wrong. It irritates you when you ask what is wrong and get silence as the answer.

So here I am with answers to those questions, however I cannot assure how many of you will be able to relate to it. I would like to quote an example to aid my explanation: for those of you who have seen 'Jane Tu Ya Jane Na', might remember Amit, Aditi's brother, he hated Jai and never talked straight to either to Jai or Aditi. Once Aditi asked him why have you changed, why have you gone so far? To which he replied that it was not him who went far, it was just other people who surrounded Aditi. 

People do not actually understand, all those odd behavior, rash talks are just to gain that attention back which has been diverted to other people. They still love you the way they used to, but hate you for not understanding their feelings. All you need is to give that time which they deserve, but before starting up again do sit and talk and have a great long argument, and in that argument you would get to know how long your presence was longed for, what all were the places where you were missed. And then maybe you may realize that you were about to loose a pearl while collecting stones. So, go and mend up before time runs out.