Eyes the most
beautiful gift given to us by nature. Now, those who think a lot, a flash of
thoughts may strike them, why eyes are the most beautiful gift? Even I was also searching for a justifiable answer . But then, I was
reminded of 'Beauty lies in the eyes of
beholder'.
But, here we are to
talk about the " window to the soul ".
When one has to read someone through and through, just willfully peak into their eyes and you'll know the person in one
go. Here, I would like to stress on the word willfully, because until and
unless you are not interested to read the other person, you'll just have a pair
of eyes staring back at you.
Your eyes speak the
unspoken words which never even came out of your mouth. Eyes speak a lot. Even
the emoticons differ the expression through eyes ;).Ok, I'll bring forward an
example which might have come in front
of most of you. One of those sad days when you don't want to talk to anyone and
haven't told anyone what is wrong and your mom just by looking at you shoots up
a question , "What's wrong with you?". To which if you answer
"Nothing", the next thing what she does is, looks straight into your
eyes to assure herself that whatever you are saying is right or not. You can
not escape your mom's gaze. And if you try to steal your eyes she catches you
then and there. Mom's willfully read their child's eyes because they want to
solve their each and every problem. They know how to look through
"that" window.
So, the point is
that eyes can be very well read and rarely(considering the exceptions) can
anybody come up and say that nobody can read or guess what is on my mind.
This reading of eye
is a silent language which if learnt can build up a strong relation. I read
somewhere that a true relation begins when the silence between the two is
complete. And here is when this eye language comes into action. A simple look
and you can feel the warmth and comfort. Well, I may not be any one new who
brought down this point . There are numerous songs and poems which describe
this beautifully.
I brought up this
topic because I wanted to share few of my eye language experiences. I just
caught one of my guy friend gazing at
one of my girl friend somewhat like this:
And he stole his
gaze when I caught him red handed. I just thought, how much he has to express
to her but never speaks because he is afraid to loose her. Therefore, I would
suggest that just look once into the eyes of your loved ones and know how
deeply you are loved, because eyes would definitely reveal the truth.
But do keep your
gaze soft so that the other person does not feel awkward or feel like being
interrogated.
With this I just
hope that my silent message gets conveyed ;).
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